~My Bess~

Bess is in ICU," Howard told me, "We almost lost her."

My heart sank.  Bess wasn't going to get her wish to die at home surrounded by her family.  I hoped that nobody would try to keep her alive artificially.  I know that we all wanted to keep her alive, but would it be fair to keep her alive with machines?  I don't think she wanted that at all.

Bess had not called, and I didn't try to see her.  She declined visitors except a few people.  I think she wanted us to remember her as she was before the cancer ravaged her body.

I was so grateful for her April visit.


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"Jehovah is near to those
that are broken in heart;
And those who are crushed in spirit
he saves."
From Psalm 34:18 The New World Translation
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